Feeling So Sick I Was Unable to Walk As a Stranger Essentially Lifted Me to the Toilets.

Back when I was my late teens, my morning travel was on an packed public transport. The vehicle was always jammed and was consistently standing room only when I got on.

One particular morning, I began feeling terribly ill while the vehicle swayed around each corner. I continuously reassured myself to hold on for a few more stops so the bus could reached my stop, so I could then rush hurriedly toward the most convenient public restroom to throw up.

We were coming down the street towards my stop and I understood I was unable to last. In an instant, it felt as if a fog descended upon me. The world became blank and silent; similar to when one cut the sound. I thought, ā€œI’m going to faintā€.

Thankfully, I was positioned toward the front inside the vehicle, allowing me to take a couple of steps toward the driver and requested that the driver to stop, explaining to him I needed to vomit. He promptly opened the doors and I stumbled out out onto the street.

My intention was not to vomit before six lanes of traffic, so I picked myself up and began attempting to walk toward the green space across the road, where I thought I’d at least be able to find some privacy behind a bush to vomit. However I apparently blacked out. I could feel my physical self, yet walking was impossible or see properly, leading me to start inching my way to the park.

ā€œAre you okay, dear?ā€

At that moment, someone picked me up. I felt an arm around my waist and a man’s voice asked, ā€œAre you okay, dear?ā€ I managed to tell the mysterious stranger that I required to be sick. Therefore, he almost supported my weight down into an adjacent building and put me into the female bathroom. He inquired whether I required him to stay with me but I said no.

Not long after, I regained my composure enough to sit on the toilet and from the other side of the door came him ask, ā€œAre you OK, love? Is there anything you require?ā€ I wasn’t able to stand up just then but I was able to say thank you and shortly thereafter regained the function of my limbs. I got myself home and spent the following days getting over what turned out to be a severe stomach virus.

I never glimpsed that man’s face – only his legs and the big steelwork tools container he held – but he helped me, during a time when I was completely helpless.

Often this world can make you self-protective, pushy, and rivalrous. What he did was the kind of action that reverses that emotional callousness. He served as evidence that our default setting is to be kind, a quality I adore about humanity.

Gwendolyn Allen
Gwendolyn Allen

A technology consultant with over 12 years of experience in IT infrastructure and digital transformation strategies.